Culture - Mind Your Manners in Vietnam
Vietnam is one of those places that sweeps you off your feet—not just because of its stunning landscapes and delicious food, but also because of its fascinating mix of tradition and modernity. While many Vietnamese still hold traditional values, the younger generation is incredibly forward-thinking and well-educated. That said, there are a few cultural nuances that might surprise you if you’re used to Western ways. To help you navigate your trip with ease (and avoid any awkward moments), here are five essential tips for traveling in Vietnam.
Dress the Part
Vietnamese people often wonder why so many well-off Westerners dress like they just rolled out of bed. A worn-out tank top and teeny beach shorts? Save those for, well… the beach. If you dress a little more polished—say, a breezy linen outfit instead of gym shorts—you’ll notice people treating you with more respect.
Also, a little tip: sweat-soaked clothing and dirt-covered nails are associated with hard labor, which carries a lower social status in Vietnam. So, while it’s totally fine to be an adventurous traveler, maybe pack some deodorant and wet wipes, just in case.
Mind Your Manners
A few small gestures can go a long way in Vietnam. When shaking hands, greet older people first—it’s a sign of respect. When toasting, hold your drink with both hands and make eye contact (awkward glances at the floor won’t do).
One thing you don’t have to stress about? Gender interactions. Unlike in some other cultures, women and men can speak freely without any issues. So, if you need to ask a man for directions or chat with a local woman about her favorite dish, go for it!
Smile Like You Mean It
Vietnamese people love a friendly face! If you master the art of the polite smile, you’ll find that doors magically open for you—whether you’re bargaining at a market or asking for directions. Losing your temper, on the other hand, is a big no-no. If you start yelling, you’ll lose face, and let’s be real, nobody likes a cranky tourist.
Instead, try keeping a gentle smile on your face as much as possible. Even when you’re turning down an offer, a simple “No, thank you” with a smile will work wonders. Vendors will often move on quickly, while the grumpy-looking tourists next to you will continue to be bombarded. See? Smiling pays off!
Slurp Away
If you’re used to eating soup quietly, get ready for a cultural shift. In Vietnam, slurping is actually encouraged—it helps cool down hot soup and shows that you’re enjoying your meal. So go ahead, channel your inner child and make some noise!
However, be mindful of where you place your chopsticks. Never leave them sticking upright in a bowl of rice—it resembles incense offerings at funerals and is considered bad luck. Instead, rest them neatly across your bowl or plate when you’re done eating.
Bargain Like a Pro
If you’re new to bargaining, it might feel a little uncomfortable at first, but don’t worry—it’s part of the culture! In Vietnam, haggling is expected at markets and street stalls (but not in restaurants or supermarkets).
Think of it as a fun game rather than a battle. The more playful and creative your negotiation, the more the vendor will respect you. And don’t forget—always hand over and receive money with both hands. It’s a sign of respect, and it’ll make you look like you know what you’re doing (even if you don’t!).
Vietnam is a warm, welcoming country with a beautiful culture that values respect, friendliness, and good manners. If you embrace these small cultural differences, you’ll have an even more amazing experience. So, smile, dress smartly, and get ready to slurp your way through some incredible pho!
Happy travels!
